Safeguarding policy · effective 12 September 2026

How we keep the people here safe.

The Blessing Circle puts a stranger's private words in front of a volunteer. This page says who is responsible for that going right, what the system makes impossible, and exactly what happens — step by step — when something is reported.

Who is responsible
Safeguarding lead
EverVerse Team
Reads every report, decides what happens to a guide, and is who to write to: safeguarding@eververse.org. A named lead and a deputy are held on record internally, so a report is never waiting on one person's holiday.

Every admin and every steward can suspend a guide. Only the safeguarding lead can lift a suspension. Every such action is dated on the guide's record.

The lead is accountable for this policy, for reviewing it once a year, and for the yearly transparency report: how many requests, replies, reports and suspensions there were, and what was not checked.

Who we protect, and from what

Two people meet in the Circle: an adult who has written something private, and a volunteer who answers. Both can be harmed, and the design protects both.

The person asking may be grieving, frightened, ill, or in danger. The harms are: a reply that makes it worse; a guide who uses the opening to get contact details, money, or something else; a guide who pushes belief or medical advice; and a request from someone in crisis reaching nobody at all.

The guide is a volunteer reading strangers' pain. The harms are: abuse aimed at them; a request that is really a lure; and answering thirty people in a sitting, which is its own kind of harm.

Children are not in the Circle, and that is the point. Every request is checked for signs the writer may be under 18 before it is sent; if it looks that way, it is not sent, and the writer is shown a helpline for young people. No guide ever sees it. We would rather turn away some adults than let one child through.

What the system makes impossible

Policy is what people promise. These are what the database refuses, whoever asks, including us:

  • A guide gets one message to any person, ever. The reply is stored under the guide's own id and cannot be written twice. Every grooming pattern needs a second message, and there is none.
  • A reply cannot be edited or deleted by the guide. What was written is what is read when it is reported.
  • A conversation cannot start without a named steward reading alongside, is opened only by the person asking, never by the guide, and cannot exceed twelve turns. A guide can speak only after the person has just spoken; a guide who is ignored cannot write again.
  • A request that looks like a crisis cannot go to the whole Circle. It can be written only to a companion or steward — someone identity-checked and vouched for — and if nobody is free, the person is shown the crisis line for their country instead.
  • A new guide sees only celebrations — a new baby, a wedding, a recovery — until a person has read their first replies and let them through. Grief never reaches a guide nobody has read.
  • A guide cannot see the queue. Only requests matched to them, or sent to everyone. The collection cannot be listed, searched or browsed.
  • Nothing about a guide's standing can be changed by the guide. Identity, vouches, affiliation, probation and suspension are recorded by other people.

Guides also confirm their identity with a document and a live selfie before their first reply. Read exactly what we check and what we do not.

What happens when something is reported

Under every reply there is a Report this button, with seven reasons, and it needs no account. A guide has the same button on every request. Both go to the safeguarding lead, not to a system. This is the process, and the times are promises we measure on our Health screen.

  1. Within 24 hours, a person reads it. The lead or a steward opens the report and the reply or request it points to. Because replies cannot be edited, what was written is exactly what is read.
  2. If a person may be in danger, that comes first. Before anything else, the reader looks at whether the person who asked is at risk right now. If they are, and we hold enough to act on, we contact the emergency services in their country with what we hold. We keep almost nothing, on purpose, so this is rare — the crisis line shown on every page is the faster route, and we say so.
  3. The guide is suspended while it is looked at whenever the report is about contact details, money, anything sexual, or medical instruction. A suspended guide can answer nobody. For the other reasons the reader decides case by case, that day.
  4. The reader decides, and writes down why. One of: cleared (the reply was fine, or the report was mistaken); warned (a note to the guide, standing kept); removed (suspension made permanent, and the email banned so a new account changes nothing). A guide is always told which, and what was said about them, unless telling them would put someone at risk.
  5. The report is closed with the decision on it. Reports are kept as the record. The person who reported is anonymous to us, so we cannot write back — the reply they reported is simply no longer answerable by that guide.
  6. If a law was broken, we report it. A guide who tried to reach a person outside EverVerse for a sexual purpose, who took money, or who targeted someone we believe to be a child is reported to the police in the relevant country, with what we hold.

A guide is never removed for a reply that was merely clumsy, and never for a belief. They are removed for what they tried to do with the opening.

What we ask of guides
What we do not do, and say so

We do not run criminal-record checks on guides yet. Until we do, no volunteer can become a steward, and conversations are supervised only by the people who run EverVerse. We do not read requests as they arrive; a person reads a new guide's first replies, and anything that is reported, and the daily counts. We do not verify the crisis helpline in every country ourselves; we say on each page which have been checked by a person there.

We publish these gaps because a policy that claims more than the system does is worse than none. As each gap closes, this page changes.

To report a concern about anyone on EverVerse, use the button under the reply or request, or write to safeguarding@eververse.org. If someone is in immediate danger, contact your local emergency number first.